Someone has to make the first move

A few weeks ago one of my friends shared a meme that said something along the lines of : "was feeling guilty about the fact that I haven't reached out to my friends in While but remembered the phone works both ways, so now I don't feel guilty". My thinking is that is great and all but what if the other person is thinking the same way? That just means it's a continuous circle and no one talks anymore.

Last night I was thinking about a few friends because it seems like everyone is having a bad end of summer. So I reached out to them just to let them know that I was thinking about them. Turns out they had been missing me too, my whole point of this is " if you are missing someone reach out to them".

How I've been feeling about my favorite murder (podcast). Given recent events

i’m still going to be listening to my favorite murder. But with that being said , i don’t see K & G the way i used to. I get that they’re human and have made some big mistakes and that everyone makes mistake as we are only human. i don’t fully support them because I don't think they realize what they've done wrong but i still enjoy listening to them tell stories.

I would feel better if they came out and said that they truly understand why people have been upset on the Podcast. It's great that they have done it online but that has felt kinda half assed and like they were trying to save face.

This has been a crazy day

 starting with the Tour de France (G-Tom first and in yellow and Froomey in 2nd) , another new trailer for the 13th doctor and now the trailer for the new season of clone wars. Oh and the trailer for the Titans movie.

I've been here before

I know it's been forever since my last post and that I've been here before, but after spending yesterday with some of my favorite Cali peeps and seeing the trailer for the 13th doctor (Doctor Who). I'm feeling that there is magic back in the air and I have a game plan for getting Monday that involves deep cleaning my office!  It's the little things that make up the biggest and greatness of life!

Just remember my dear readers you are loved!

It's the little things that matter

For example one of my favorite Christmas gifts was a small general Leia doll.

For my birthday it was the fact that Jasa called me sis, ( we kinda lost touched when I got married) so glad that we found out way back to each other.

It's also hugs from the husband.

Cow pics from Esa.

Being tagged in creepy but cool doll pics by Ashley.

Texts from Cindy-Lou, Amanda, Linds and Alycia just to say that there still care!


The small things make all the difference in the world and sometimes more meaningful compared to the big things.

True crime

I have always loved mysterious and true crime stories. From learning to have a love for reading by Getting hooked on Nancy Drew to bounding with my middle sister by watching true crime stories on the telly.

It's been kinda of hidden passion of mine, only my closet family and friends know. But thanks to the podcast : "My Favorite Murder" I have found a whole group of understanding peeps. The best thing is that the group is caring and support. (But we are not a cult, so no need to call our dads)!

New year new start

Life happens and the best thoughts go out the window, but it's now 2018 so that means a new start and maybe things will be right on track.

Start the year off sick as a dog but in a way that is good because it means things can only go up from this point!