Being sick Sucks!

Froggy and I are moving in a week and of course the thing i have been fighting off and hoping would not happen has decided to totally make a mess of things! I was pose to spend this weekend with one of my besties as its going to be a while and instead on Wednesday i wake up with a bronchitis flair up and not only to i have to miss 3 days of work i also i have to miss out on my weekend with Esa!

Esa has made so many trips down to see me over this past year and i have taken such good care of me over my wedding weekend! she is always do so much for me and i was looking forward to finally being able to return the favor of driving up to see her! but now i cant and i feel like i am letting her down. I know that is not the case because she has said so but it still hurts!

The one reason why Esa and my friendship has lasted 11 years is because we fight each and everyday to hold on to it! we may not talk everyday or see each other as much as we used to but we both know that if we are needed we are only a phone call away! We understand each other and even though we will be on different cost that should not make a different we will still be as close if not closer then we once were! 

Fab Five!

I am Lucky to have a few friends that seems to have been in my life forever! The funny thing is that we did not grow up together as kids and most of us don't live in the same state. Yet we have grown up together as adults and have been their for each other for the good-times, the bad-times, the ups and downs, the funny moments life has given and the sad! I can honesty say with out these peeps in my life i would not be here today!

Now that we are done with college and out in the working world, life has been kinda crazy and we don't see each other or talk as much as we once did. We still find the time to make things work even if its just a text here and a Facebook message there. its the small things that mean the most for it lets us know that we are thinking about each other and if needed we are only a phone call away no matter if is 3am or 5pm. We make the drive to see each other when we can, we make time to talk when the important things come up and we do this because we want to make these friendships last and because we have put in the effort our friendship has  lasted.

The things that mean the most and we want most out of lives are the ones that take the most work but are the most rewarding! I am rewarded with an amazing group of friends and an amazing husband who showed me that i have so much to live for and that life is so amazing! I have my gals who were the best bridesmaids ever and the bestest friends a princess could ask for!

New Year, New state, almost!

hard to believe that come the 19th it will be two months since froggy and i said "I DO"! most days it feels like a dream because i feel so lucky! its been such a long and winy road, tens years in the making!. i know that i have said it before but i will say it again and again because this is what i wanted from day one, even if did not really relize it for my heart know but we did have to take a slight detour just to make sure because one never buys the first dress they try on until 5 dress later the realize the one that they really wanted with already there.

With the new year, the next chapter in my life starts for i am finally making the move to cali, the move that was pose to take place almost 8 years again! i am looking forward to the move and its not like i am going to be alone for i will have my Cali family and the Cali Crew. I know that i am going to miss my family here but its time to really spread my wings and see how far i can truly fly!  

I am not saying that i am not worried because that would be crazy, but i think that its the normal things to worry about! my biggest fear is that the mouse is going to forget about me but i know that i will be seeing her at least once a year so hopefully we will still be as close as we are now! i am sad that i wont see the monkeys first steps in person but at lest we have the technology now to relive moments and record them as they happens.

That is what i am hoping this Blog will be about when i make the move, i really hope that i will do a better of updating it to record the new adventure that is life in Cali!

todays thanks

i am thankful for a Monday that flew by, maybe this week wont be so bad.
I am thankful for my loving husband who understands me so well and does not laugh at me but with me when i do something crazy.
I am thankful for the fact that my Chloe Ianto is healthy and on the right path to weight loss. she is a 13 pound cat after all.

today's truths

I am thanful for my friends, my work friends, my online friends and my friend friends.
I am happy that i still have a job even if its just a job, its something i am kinda good at.
I am still enjoying wedding bliss :)
I am happy to have made though another Halloween with a smile on my face.
I know that some friendships are changing and ships are getting ready to sail different seas, but that is life!
As the days go  by i find myself looking forward to the Cali move more and more!

Halloween 2013

this was a great day and with it being Halloween and a great day, makes it all the more special. the highlights were getting kudos at work for being brave enough to dress up, then being offered a staff spot on TBN, followed by a fun night of passing out candy and hanging with the geek gal and her hubby!

i gots nothing

so in keeping with my goal of posting/writting something each and i have day. i felt the need to write tonight and yet i have nothing. my mind is blank, i had a fun evening with the family and i am kinda looking forward to this crazy weekend, but other then that i have nothing. but i guess the few bits i put down are better then leaving a blank page or is it than?