A Name

I saw his name today for the first in like forever and i realized just how small of a world it is that we live in! it seems like almost everyone knows someone in a circle and we are all connected! Its funny because when i saw his name this time all i felt was anger for the way that it ended and the fact that we could not be friends! I mean most of my past relationships have never remained in the friend-zoned, the only one is the man who is now my  (froggy) husband!

Seeing my ex's name made me so thankful that things turned out like that they for as much as i gave my heart to the Pink Ninja being with him did not let the real me shine, sure i grew and found out so much more about myself and learned a few new things along the way but it was not me! It also brought me to some of the most amazing peeps ever and some lasting friendships were made from it but a small part wishes that he and I could have remained friends too!  

I guess my husband is really the only one who completely understands and puts up with me, not because he has to but because he wants to! after all that we have been though what it really comes down to is love! The fact is that i have married my best friend and i would not have it any other way for it is true that Love really is

1 Corinthians 13:4-7

New International Version (NIV)

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

what i should have said!

The other day i did a good deed for a dear friend and afterwards we were having a chat! I wanted to say something during the chat but i was scared of how it would come across and i did not want it to sound rude of self-conceded. But seeing as it been a few days and the words are still having on my heart i feel they just need to be said so here it goes :

"God has sent be to be an ambassador for him and to show that he does care about you, that there is good in life and that everything does indeed happen for a reason! we may not feel like it and understand the reason for they may not be all that good but it brings us to the path that we are pose to be on and brings us to the people that we need most in our lives! He does have a master-plan for your life and want you to know that he does indeed exist!"

life is good!

I had an amazing life day weekend! it did not turn out like i thought it would, because it turned out even better! it was a weekend filled with family, old and new friends! it was filled with laughter and love! good food and drinks! it was a great celebration of life!

In other news we are still house hunting! keeping our toes crossed that the right one will come along soon! Because we are having a blast with the rents, but it would be nice to have a place to call our own!