I have this friend, who has become kinda like a bridge from my past to now. He knows both the FCJKS (First Coast Jedi Knights)and the Casbah Crew. He is still part of my life to see the present with froggy (even if its only Via Facebook). I am so thankful for his counting friendship even if we don't see each other. Being invited to his birthday bash a few months ago was more important and a big milestone in my life. It helped me fully put the past with TP fully behind me and showed me that i was able to do things by myself. That i am much stronger then i give myself credit for. His party was just what i needed and i am not even sure that i can ever thank him fully for the gift that he give without even knowing it. My only complaint is that i wish we could see each other more, but he is a busy man as am i. I would Like to think that Dman is in my life for a lifetime, but do we really know how the season will treat us from year to year.
Reason, Season, or Lifetime
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty;
to provide you with guidance and support;
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
I am just thankful for all of the friendship that i have now, the ones that have lasted though the ups and downs of this crazy world we live in. I know that to some i have not been the best of keeping in contact and coming to visit. I know other we hardly take even on Facebook and for that i am so very sorry, Just know that you are all never far from my heart!